R.S.V.P.
Réspondez s'il vous plait (English translation: Please Reply)
Beverly Yacovitch
a corporate event planner shared this modern day etiquette dilemma
with me the other day. Beverly has experienced a total lack of understanding
and manners recently on the part of generation x'ers (25 - 32 year
olds). Each of the last three events she has run has experienced
multiple problems related to attendees not registering but still
showing up for her events. She requests R.S.V.P's and clearly provides
a systematic way to register for the event. These individuals just
feel that it is alright to crash the event and that the all powerful
meeting planner (in this case Beverly) will just take care of the
dozen or so who feel it's beneath their dignity to send in the registration
form or even to send a quick email. Of course we all realize the
effect extra guests have on an event, never mind 10 -12 additional
attendees showing up unexpectedly! Her supplier has to scramble
and her budget takes a whack. The gatecrashers demand service and
expect to be treated as if they were on a VIP list. Beverly endures
the added stress while she wonders how to reach these manner needy
ingrates. Don't worry Beverly - etiquette and manners have not disappeared.
All it takes is a gentle reminder and a notice that anyone who fails
to RSVP will be shown the door! Remember to help a fellow meeting
professional by sharing the need to and courtesy of, responding
to an R.S.V.P. Beverly and I are counting on you. Moral: Be extremely
clear about the consequences of failing to register.
Please RSVP
to me by email ChrisReagan@geteheadpro.com
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